A birth chart cannot tell you another person's private thoughts or promise they will return. You can talk through a relationship concern and, if useful, discuss confirmed chart details.
First, what is happening between you?
A question about love marriage is different from a question about a breakup. Family disagreement is different again. This conversation starts by finding out whether the concern is between the two of you, about family agreement, or about what to do after a separation.
You can ask about communication, doubts about a proposal, or how to explain a kundli concern to parents. The guide should remember what you already said (including that someone has declined contact), rather than repeatedly asking for the same story.
If you want a traditional chart discussion, confirmed details can be calculated for the relevant person. Comparing two adults needs both sets of details. The resulting score can describe traditional matching factors; it cannot prove loyalty, detect cheating, or decide whether someone loves you.
Your account of the relationship matters. Fear, coercion and harm should not be excused as a dosha. If you feel unsafe, tell someone you trust and seek appropriate local support rather than waiting for a chart prediction.
How this conversation starts
- Explain the present concern: love marriage, family agreement, a conflict, or separation.
- Clarify whose birth details you have and whether you want a personal reading or a two-person match.
- Discuss one finding at a time. Interrupt, correct a detail, or return to the practical concern whenever you need to.
No guaranteed reunion, mind-reading, or promise to change another person's feelings. A chart does not justify ignoring someone's refusal or staying in an unsafe relationship.
Before you start
Will the guide tell me if my ex will come back?
It should not promise a return or claim to know your ex's intentions. It can discuss the uncertainty you are facing and a traditional reading, while respecting the other person's choices and boundaries.
Can we discuss parents opposing a love marriage?
Yes. Explain whether the objection is a score, a named dosha, or a concern unrelated to astrology. Those are different conversations. A calculated match is not a guarantee of family agreement.
Do I need my partner's birth details to start?
No. You can first explain the situation. A calculated comparison needs both adults' confirmed details; without them the guide should not invent the missing person's chart.